'Whatever you are, be a good one' - Abraham Lincoln
I use my phone a lot. Doesn't everyone? I feel like having a phone is one of the most useful items I own. Whenever I have a blogging idea or an idea for a story, I will use my phone's notes and write it down. Whenever I need to capture a memory, I will use my phone's camera. I love my phone and I feel like that is the same for most people.
Although, what I don't like is having apps that I don't use on my phone. I feel like they take up unnecessary space.
Huji
First is Huji. Now, I am not going to pretend this is a new app and that you haven't seen it plastered all over your Instagram or Facebook feed. It isn't new and I do feel very late to the craze. But I love this app. Below are some of the photos I have taken using it. Basically, what it does is make like all the photos you take are from a disposable camera. I love both Polaroid and disposable cameras and the way it makes photos look. However, Polaroid is super expensive and although I do own one, I only use it on special occasions. And as for disposable cameras themselves, I do sometimes buy them when I am about to go on holiday, but they cost a lot as well. Plus you also have to get them developed, which is even more time and money, so this app is a definite winner.
Grab this app here - Huji
FamCal
Another app that is a must for my day-to-day life is my FamCal. Now, this app is definitely meant for a family, however, I use it for me and my friends. I live in a house with three other people and it's sometimes nice to know where everyone is if they are going to be home for dinner. Plus, because we are on the same course, we share deadlines. So, is there is upcoming work, it will be put on the calendar and then we will all see it. How it works is, one of you downloads the app and chooses their colour as well as a shared password. Then they connect you by adding your emails and then you choose your own colours. For example - all my events are in pink and my boyfriends are all in blue. Therefore you know who made the plan. It's super easy to use, it doesn't take up much storage and to be honest, it's been a lifesaver.
Grab this app here - FamCal
FrintsPrints
FrintsPrints has to be one of my all-time favourite apps. If you haven't heard of this app, you are missing out. FreePrints is an app where you can your photos printed out from your phone. You get 45 free photos a month and you only have to pay delivery, which for me is only £2.99 (fast track delivery). What I love about this app is that you don't have to pay monthly to get this service. You pay when you want the photos. They arrive quickly, are excellent quality and they make amazing presents for close family and friends. I would highly recommend this app.
Grab this app here - FreePrints
Canva
Canva is an excellent app for bloggers or just people who want to make their social media look tidy. I use Canva for all my on-the-go logo needs. I have mostly used this to make my Twitter and Facebook banner for my blog's social media accounts. It's so simple and easy to use, plus it's free. Do you know how hard it is to find a good logo site that offers you nice quality logos for FREE? Spoiler - it's difficult. But with Canva, I can do it on my phone, quickly and it makes all my social media look tidy.
Grab this app here - Canva
VSCO
Again VSCO, is not a new app. I have used this app for a while and it has travelled across a few phones with me. When it comes to editing photos, there are plenty of different apps that you can use, but my advice is, stick to the one you know and trust. Once I started blogging, I wanted my Instagram theme and blog to look similar and to give off the same feeling. I found that just editing my photos using the Instagram presets or editing using my Mac was not cutting it for me, so I started using VSCO.
Grab this app here - VSCO
'Do more things that make you forget to look at your phone'
Okay, lets me preface this by saying, I am an avid social media user. I love social media. I am an Instagram addict, I have a Tumblr account, I am active on Facebook and I am partial to Twitter.
I do a lot of work on my phone, I communicate a lot through social media and all around, I feel that platforms like Facebook and Instagram are good when you need to keep in contact with people
But, because I do use social media a lot, it means that I tend to get very...involved with it. For example, I do see things that affect me. Eg. Thin models, people with problematic opinions or just general hate speech. But I have started to this thing, where I don't get angry or bitter, I get better. I have started to unfriend, unfollow and block people who don't brighten my feed every day. I have started to share more things (especially on Facebook) that I feel are correct. I have begun to share content about self-love, happy relationships and just general love. I have even started a facebook page dedicated to my positive blog posts and constructive quotes (follow it here ). I felt like my feed needed a little more light.
I feel like my second point should be about actually putting your phone done once in a while, stepping back from all social media and just spending time with friends and family. I love taking photos and I feel that creating memories that you can physically go back and look at is really important for anyone. But there is a time and a place for photos. This sounds really cliche but 'you have to live in the moment' sometimes.
Although I use social media a lot, I am not someone who posts every second of their day. But being a blogger means I do have to put a large portion of my day-to-day life on social media. However, I do love just spending time with people and not having to post it everywhere.
So take a second before you leave the house and just think - do I need to take my phone today.
*This is not my photo
What I was listening to whilst I wrote this: Body Count - Jessie Reyez
YOU DID NOT WAKE UP TODAY TO BE MEDIOCRE
I get a lot of questions about blogging. How I manage it, how do I get people to read what I have written and how to start. But what I get asked more than anything is 'Why?' Why do you blog? Is it for money? How do you keep going? How do you stay inspired? And what I have found is that, as soon as people ask me why I blog, it tends to lead onto talking about why they haven't started blogging and how it makes them feel.
I feel that blogging and actually running a blog comes with a lot of concerns. When I tell people about what I do, they usually express why they don't think they would make a good blogger.
I have nothing interesting to say
Of course, you do. Every single person has something interesting to say. I write about being a student a lot! Some many of my readers are students and would find my content interesting. Being a student is not unique or different. It is all about your delivery, your personality, your style of writing.
I don't have time
I am not going to lie, blogging is time-consuming. I have only just started posting three times a week because it's summer and I have a little more time. However, if time is the reason that you don't want to start blogging, it is definitely something you can work around. If you only have time to post once a week, do it.
No-one will care about what I write about
All blogs have a demographic and a niche. It's all about finding your own voice and what you would like to say. I feel that with this concern, it's all about confidence. People will care and everyone has something new and interesting to say. Every single influencer, YouTubers, blogger has had to start from somewhere. You have to start at the bottom so you can move up.
I can't take good photos or flat lays
The photos aren't everything. Yes, you do have to have a good icon for your posts so people are more likely to click on them. But you learn what type of photos look good and what don't. It's all a learning process and you should never think that there is only one skill involved in being successful. Everyone runs their blog differently and yours will be completely unique because it will represent you.
If you want to start a blog - just do it.
If you want to start a blog - just do it.
What I was listening to whilst I wrote this: War Paint - FLETCHER
A Perfect Pasta Bake
Happy Friday! Today, I want to talk about a meal that I make often. If I am going away for a while, I tend to make this meal and put it in the fridge for my housemates. If I have had a long day at university and I want something quick and yummy, I will tend to make this meal. If there is hardly anything for dinner in the house, I will tend to make this meal.
I love making pasta bakes because I can just bung everything in a big dish, cook it up and serve it.
I love making pasta bakes because I can just bung everything in a big dish, cook it up and serve it.
What you will need:
- A large, pyrex dish
- A bowl of grated cheese
- A few serving of Pasta
- Some chopped up veg (I used peas and peppers for mine)
- A pasta bake sauce
How to make it:
- Pour the servings of pasta into the glass pyrex dish and dump the sauce.
- Fill the jar which the sauce came in, up with water and pour that over the pasta as well.
- Smooth the sauce over the pasta and make sure it's covering most of it.
- Put it in the oven (Gas Mark 6) for around 15 minutes.
- Take the bake out of the oven and stir it, then put it back in for another 5 minutes.
- Take it out once again and stir in peppers or whatever veg you have chosen.
- Cover the top in cheese and put back in the oven for another 5 minutes.
- Boil the peas in a separate pot. (This step is solely for frozen peas or other frozen vegetables you might be using. As a student, I tend not to buy a lot of fresh vegs and just putting in the bake in the oven, it won't cook properly)
- Take the pasta bake out and mix in the peas or whatever vegetables you have chosen.
- Enjoy!
That's it! One full meal that you and your housemates can enjoy for cheap. In the wintery cold nights, when it's too expensive to have the heating on all the time, I find that this meal is a really good choice.
I hope this series is helping you feed your belly easily and cheaply! Keep tuned every Friday for more helpful tips!
'The magic thing about home is that it feels good to leave, and it feels even better to come back ' - Wendy Wunder
Are you leaving for university in September? Are you feeling a bit panicked?
In a post I wrote the other day, '5 Things I Wished Someone Had Told Me Before I Had Started University', I spoke about not packing everything you own when you move. Your University room isn't going to be that big and you need to choose carefully what you take. In my first year, I made the mistake of hardly having any decorative items in my room. Overall, it made my little dorm room feel sad and I didn't feel at home because of it. You have to remember that you will be staying in that room for a long period of time and it has to be full of a nice, comfortable energy that will, in turn, make it an enjoyable place to work and feel good.
So here are a few things that I felt has made my university room a home in my second year:
Photos
Something I did actually decorate my room within the first year was photos. I carried this over into my second year as well. Having photos of my family and friends all around my room definitely made the space feel more like it was mine. I am a bit of a photo fanatic and I have always loved getting photos from my iPhone printed out. Occasionally, I will frame them and other times, I will simply use a bit of string and hang them using pegs.
Wall Art
Wall art is a tricky one. Some students places don't allow you to put it on the walls as they might damage it. However, recently I was shown 'Under Lucky Stars', which is a personalized star map company that will do a print of the stars above you at a certain time and location. Personally, I got one of my home (where I live when I am not at university), so whenever I was feeling homesick, I could just look at my 'Under Lucky Stars' print of the stars above my home and feel a little better. The print from 'Under Lucky Stars' is really good quality and you even have the choice to mount it, so it already comes in a frame. Personally, I prop it up against the wall above my desk. It is definitely a statement piece for my room and the fact that it's personalised to feature my home, really makes the space around me feel cosier.
Plants
Whether they are real or fake, I have always thought that having plants present in your room always makes it feel a little more homely. In my first year, I had all real and alive plants. But as I started to get to know my surroundings, I started to spend more and more time out of the house. So eventually, most of them died. In my second year, I have solely stuck to cacti and plastic ( but realistic) plants. But having some greenery in my room has really made more like home.
I really hope this helps all my worried freshers and all my readers moving from halls into their own little house. Remember to own your space, it is yours and you deserve to feel like you belong there. Add photos, plants and cover your space in wall art - make your room a place you are happy to come home too.
*This is not my photo
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'The best relationships usually begin unexpectedly'
Hello hello. I hope you are well. I really starting to like this positivity posts that I have been doing weekly. It makes me feel good writing them and I get so many messages a week saying that others have enjoyed them too. Thank you for the ongoing support. This week, I have decided to tackle the subject of relationships.
I want to broaden the topic of relationships in this post. Yes, a relationship is and can be between you and a significant other. However, I also want to talk about your relationships with your friends, your parents, even your pets. More often than not, relationships, in regards to your partner, are spoken about as having to be 50/50. You have to put in as much effort as you receive. Which, whilst being good advice, I think every relationship should be 50/50. There is no relationship in your life which will work out if you don't give as much as you get from it.
All relationships are tricky. You don't always get along with your friends, parents or partners. The idea of a relationship should not always be about romance. It should be about trust, no matter who it is with. With trust comes the idea of vulnerability. When people say that 'they find it hard to trust someone else' it generally means that they are afraid to be vulnerable. But if you can't break down that wall for at least one person, parent, partner or friend, then you will end up isolating yourself. Not every person is the same, not every person will hurt you. But its all about weeding out the ones that will.
And finally, a relationship is between you and one other person. Again, and I feel the need to keep repeating this...This is the same with all relationships. When you develop a relationship with someone, no matter what the nature of that relationship is, it is solely between you and that person, unless you want it otherwise. If you are with a partner, it is no-one else's business what is happening between you two. And it is the same for the relationship between you and your parent, you and your friend and even you and your dog. In this day and age, when social media is huge, it becomes easy to find out little details about everybody's various relationships. However, think about privacy and how it wouldn't be fun to have your very own relationships invaded.
I loved writing this post and I really hoped you enjoyed reading it. Have a super good week.
I want to broaden the topic of relationships in this post. Yes, a relationship is and can be between you and a significant other. However, I also want to talk about your relationships with your friends, your parents, even your pets. More often than not, relationships, in regards to your partner, are spoken about as having to be 50/50. You have to put in as much effort as you receive. Which, whilst being good advice, I think every relationship should be 50/50. There is no relationship in your life which will work out if you don't give as much as you get from it.
'Kiss your friend's faces more / destroy the belief that intimacy must be reserved for monogamous relationships / be more loving / embrace platonic intimacy' (Lora Mathis)
And finally, a relationship is between you and one other person. Again, and I feel the need to keep repeating this...This is the same with all relationships. When you develop a relationship with someone, no matter what the nature of that relationship is, it is solely between you and that person, unless you want it otherwise. If you are with a partner, it is no-one else's business what is happening between you two. And it is the same for the relationship between you and your parent, you and your friend and even you and your dog. In this day and age, when social media is huge, it becomes easy to find out little details about everybody's various relationships. However, think about privacy and how it wouldn't be fun to have your very own relationships invaded.
I loved writing this post and I really hoped you enjoyed reading it. Have a super good week.
What I was listening to whilst I wrote this: I Love You, Honeybear- Father John Misty
A Blissful Breakfast
Welcome to my new series! I will be posting a quick and cheap meal idea or recipe every Friday for all my students or just people who are in a rush! Being a student and feeding yourself can be difficult. Whether that be because of time or just that buy fresh and healthy food is really expensive. I find breakfast really difficult, as it's usually before my lectures and I don't give myself tonnes of time to eat as I value sleep too much.
Are you in a rush in the morning? Does your breakfast suffer because you don't physically have time to make food before running out the door? Well hopefully, I have a solution.
So here is not one...but two things I prepare for my quick and cheap breakfast.
First: A Tropical Smoothie
I know what you are thinking...a smoothie? I don't have time to chop fruit and blend up a smoothie in the morning. And also, there is no way I have the money for a bunch of tropical fruit. But hear me out...
What you need to make this:
- One portion of tropical fruit mix - You can pick these up for £1.99 from Lidl or £2.30
- Half a glass of water
- A few teaspoons of Honey
The total price of snack - £2-3
Why would I have a smoothie in the morning?
Second: Peanut Butter and Apple
I have been told this is a weird combination and snack, but let me tell you if you like peanut butter and need a good, healthy snack for the morning than apple dipped in peanut butter is what you have been looking for.
What you need to make this:
What you need to make this:
- One, sliced apple 59p-£1.60
- A dollop of Peanut butter 99p-£2.99
Paired with the fruity smoothie, this light but energy full breakfast covers at least three of your five a day and helps you towards a more productive morning. I only have a small breakfast as I find it hard to eat so early in the morning, however, if this doesn't appear filling enough for you then you could always add a breakfast bar or a slice of toast as well.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my first post in my new series! Stay tuned every Friday for cheap and easy meals and ideas!
'The sun will rise and we will try again'
Hello hello, it's a brand new day. A lot has changed over the past couple of months with me. I have been filled with a new type of inspiration that is hard to explain. There will be some few upcoming changes to my blog as well, which I think you all will be looking forward too!
Q1 - 'What is your favourite type of post to write?'
I love to write about most things. I love reading a lot so writing book reviews are always fun! But I also love writing my 'A Note On...' series as well because I feel like I am really offering advice to my audience.
Q2 - 'Girl just how are you? Life looks good and I love your blog?'
At the moment, I am doing really well. I am working for myself as well as attending university and I am working hard on discovering the balance between the two. My friends and family are all really supportive as well which makes being able to write about what I love a lot easier.
Q3 - 'How do I get more readers to my blog?'
Q4 - 'Where are you from?'
This is a difficult question and one that I get asked a lot. Everyone has to start from somewhere. My best advice is to keep writing. Just keep going, keep putting out content. Even on those days where your brain is stuck and you think that no-one is really going to care about what you write about anymore, sit down and write. Blogging does have its difficulties and I am not going to pretend that it's fun all the time, but as long as you are writing about something that you are passionate about, then you should be fine.
Q4 - 'Where are you from?'
I get asked this a lot too, especially on Instagram and Twitter. I am from England and I am currently studying in Surrey but I am actually a country girl at heart.
Q5 - 'How long have you been blogging for now?'
I have been blogging since early January, so eight months now! It has gone so so fast! But I have loved all of it.
Q6 - 'How long does it take you to get a good photo for your blog?'
This is such a good question. It really depends what I am taking a photo of and why I am taking it. If it is for a personal post, I genuinely find it easier because there is no pressure. But if I am taking a photo for a review or to highlight a product, then I really want it to look the best it can.
Life Updates:
So, let's get onto these blog and life updates:
I will be posting three times a week from now on! I know, it sounds like a lot and I am unsure how reliable I will be once I have started uni again but I am really excited about the new series I will be doing on Friday evenings!
It will be called *drumroll please*
FEEDING THE STARVING STUDENT
Recently, whilst doing my food shopping I have started to think about all the meals I make for myself at university and how I do it so cheaply. Most of my demographic for my blog consists of students as well. So...every Friday from now on will feature a cheap recipe, an easy meal idea or a top tip to save money when making food! I am super excited and I hope you are too.
Thank you all for your ongoing support and interest. It keeps me writing and inspires so many new ideas! LETS ROLL ON FRIDAY!
What I was listening to whilst I wrote this: 2 - H.E.R
What I was listening to whilst I wrote this: 2 - H.E.R
'I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet' - Mahatma Gandhi
That's start by saying - this is all my own opinion and personal experiences with people who have been deemed 'toxic'. I don't want it to sound like a 'toxic person' is a new species of human and that every person who performs any of these actions are awful, dreadful people. But I have found, that for me spotting someone who is too toxic for you can be extremely difficult and sometimes, it's the last person you would expect. I am the sort of person who has, what I would describe as an 'extremely open heart'. I like to help people and always think they would do the same for me. Which to be fair, doesn't always work out well.
Do you think you have a toxic person in your life?
They will bring your mood down
I am genuinely a happy person who likes to put a smile on other peoples faces. I would describe myself as an extrovert, I love the company of others. But, this sometimes means that I attract people that are the opposite. Which I don't mind, I have friends that are extremely similar to me and love being around people. And I also have other friends that prefer their own company. But it's when a person brings you down, which is when those non-similarities should worry you. There is a difference between you helping a friend out of a bad patch or a gloomy mood occasionally, compared to helping them all the time. In any friendship or relationship, your feelings are vaild too. If a person is always bringing down your good vibes, that is a good enough reason to cut them out of your life, if you feel that is the best move. You are not someone's counsellor.
You are always in debt to them
You know when you live with someone and you ask them to take the bins out? Or when you are in the same class and you ask if you can borrow a pen? Yeah, well when a 'toxic person' does these little 'favours' or gestures, it usually comes with a debt attached. A toxic person can never just do something to be nice, a good deed is never just a good deed. A nice interaction is usually for a gain or some sort.
They will forever have a chip on their shoulder
People with toxic tendencies will always think the world owes them something. In my family, everyone works really hard. I have always been taught that nothing comes easily and working hard will get you a long way. I love this about my family. However, some people don't think like this. Working hard is not first nature to them and sometimes, they don't even feel like they are actually owed something. You can help and help and help this person but they will never help you in return because they feel they are owed that assistance. Again, put yourself first. For example; if you spend hours writing an essay that you are proud of, you do not need to give it to the person who doesn't do any work themselves.
Nothing is ever their fault
Facts mean nothing to a toxic person, they will twist the truth so thoroughly that it will have you actually questioning what happened. Every argument will be spun as your fault and eventually it will leave you apologising because either it's easier or you genuinely think it is your fault.
I hope this has helped you a little this week! I know it's hard to cut people from your life, especially if you have a big heart. But cutting toxic people from your life is not cruel, it's called self-care. Life is about finding those people who are going to support and love you unconditionally.
*Not my photo
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